My best friend is so insecure and she takes it out by being mean to everyone especially guys?

My best friend has a "boyfriend", that I would classify more as an on and off again f*ck buddy. He basically calls her when he wants sex or her emotional love for him, then once he's done he ignores her and calls her names (slut, whore, b*tch). Yet at the same time, he always makes her promise that she won't sleep with or even talk to other guys when he cheats on her the second hes done with her. She'll listen to him completely, she's seriously like his puppet when she's with him, then once he dumps her again she'll be like "let's find me a new guy", but then go rushing back to her "boyfriend" the first time he calls her. I have noticed that when she talks to guys that aren't her "boyfriend" she acts like shes interested then is like "Ew, Jacob keeps texting me he won't go away." And she purposely leads them on saying stuff like "I'm going to make him spend all his money on me. I'm so mean to him hahaha" I thought it was funny when I first met her, but now I realize that she's just doing this because she's insecure. It's really sad how mean she is to some of the guys, and she talks bad about all the people she hangs out with, maybe even me. She also tells everyone how 'hot' she is all the time and how many guys want her. But at the same time she says her body is gross until she gets her breast implants since she has wanted since she was like 10. I don't know what to do. She's one of my only friends, but her meanness and trash talking to people is getting so annoying to me that I get irritated while I'm with her and can only hangout with her for a short time. I love her, but its hard to love someone that's so mean to everyone, and I'm not even sure that she doesn't trash talk me.

Parents: Would you rather be strict with your kids or friends with them?

Different people have different lifestyles. They are right, you are being very judgemental but hey if you want to hang out with church people and goody goodys who never have fun, that's all you buddy.

What would happen to the child if the child is a USA resident, but his parents are illegal?

I'm sorry to hear that. But that is part of life and you have to deal with it. Your probably not the only one with the same problem. My brother married a Mexican girl who is only goldigging him because he is an engineer and my brother is providing her with papers. I know that she don't love him, there were even rumors about her saying she didn't love him, sad, but whatever, I warned him, he will get what is coming to him, I guess.

What is the name of the movie?

It's an English movie and I watched it with my cousins 3-4 years ago. It's a scary movie about a lady murdering people using puppets. This lady is the stepmother (?) of the protagonist and she murders his father and uses him as puppet. This lady can talk without moving any part of her face/neck area. She kills the protagonist's wife using a puppet that looks like dracula(?) {This is how the story begins}. etc. I can't remember the name of this movie. Help please!

I (The Bride) would like to sing at our wedding?

sing to him on your honeymoon, just because he loves it does not mean everyone else will, and a lot of people will record it, you could end up on failblog or RWJ if you sing like roseanne barr

Does anyone remeber a show where the main characters were puppet like things. It was a science fiction show?

and they flew around in little ship pod things. I remember they shot blue lasers. The main character was a white dude with slightly long brown hair (puppet person). I remember them shooting out from a larger ship as well and I have a brief memory of a large red ship that kind of looked like a large bird. I just remember the show being really good when I was a kid and we'd get the videos from the rental store and I just can't remember what it was called.

What does he mean when he says " I see no future with you" REALLY mean? What are the thoughts behind it.?

We've been dating for 5 & 1/2 years. When we first dated, as with all relationships, it was like a dream come true, up until the 2nd year. Things started to get rocky and he told me during an argument he had really planned to marry me when he graduated college but that would never happen, ever. That was 3 years ago, we're still together, we have awesome times together still, we go away on trips and even weekend get-a-ways with just me and him, his best friends love to hang with me as well. A really big problem is that he holds a lot of my past against me, about my ex (when i was younger and was a rebellious one), which i had never done to him. When we are good, everything is just beautiful, but he has a tendency to purposely get me pissed off or upset so I can start the argument, he would NEVER initiate one. I feel like he would also try to make me break it off with him, sometimes he's say " ..when you leave me for someone else..." Whenever we get into an argument ( which he instigates with his immature cowardly behaviors) he would tell me "why do you even talk about it, we're not going any further than where we are now, I dont see a future with you". An example of what he would do would be when I asked him to help drop some boxes off at the UPS store he said ok, then when it comes time to go, he said he had to head home and he'll do it next weekend. I said ok whatever, i dont want to plead with him, he's always wanting people to chase after him or beg him for sh1t. Then he asks me "oh are you sure, i just go now then if you really want me to" Of course i tell him no, I'd rather lug these boxes there by myself then having to beg a man to do something he took his words back on. The thing is he wasn't even in a rush to go home, when he got home he spent 3 hours of doing nothing to get to doing what he "had to go home to do". But the thing is theres so many times hes been very sweet and gentleman like, with money and paying for movies, dinners, etc he is very lenient. But when it comes to showing the care and effort he holds back, i dont care about the money or anything, emotion is what counts. I just feel like the relationship is so empty sometimes, i'm torn because i feel that when we're good, we're really good, when it gets bad it gets ugly. I also don't know what to do because i feel like he has security issues, esp. because there has been a lot going on with his family, i dont want to separate from him, leaving him to think everyone will just leave him, i want to be there for him, but he fights the hand i reach out to him. Also, we've been together since he was 18 and i was 16, we've grown together and feel like we're very much a part of each other everyday. I know the things i described to him to be doing sometimes make him seem like a shrimp of a guy but he really isn't, physically at least. He's VERY masculine looking, tall dark and handsome type, so you'd never figure him to be capable of doing such things. I am 22 and he's 24 this year , I'm at a lost of which direction to take with this...